What relationships have a positive impact on you?

What relationships have a positive impact on you?

I feel like writing, and this time it’s something least vital to me 🤷🏼‍♂️:

I think society overrates this subject, I should know since my younger self was cared about his social and romantic relationships thus my family thought that it’d upset me if I learned that my biological father, my ex gf and basically all my past social circles were there but don’t want to be here with me ( it’s kinda weird so I don’t know what to say 😅🤷🏼‍♂️).

However, what they didn’t know was that I was relieved when I learned about all of it.

Relationships

Family: It’s the foundation of our civilisation, yeah, but it’s much more complex than that 😳. My blood relatives are pretty spread out, and my mom taught my brother and me to be loving and respectful to them since we were kids. She happily rushed us to visit them on every single religious holiday because she is the most compassionate human being. NONETHELESS, as you know, when I was discharged from the hospital to home rehabilitation, we received zero help from blood relatives ( which are nearly 100 people 😂) except for my auntie, of course ♥️( my II. Mom:). Hence, if you don’t understand what family is, skip visiting relatives. God knows I respected them mainly for my beloved grandma’s (RIP) sake. ♥️ Love, respect works if they are mutual 😉. This is a convenient moment to say that I only have 4 people as my family, and they gratefully become the reason why I am alive today, literally 😇 , a foreign doctor who wanted to play God said that “ should we unplug him since his chances, well, you know…😒”. My faithful mom screamed as nobody can decide that, but God, and I believe in my son! This statement is the reason why I keep working even though I want to cry sometimes, but my mom’s strength…♥️

Social: I guess my younger self was caught up with the dynamics of the society way too much, he couldn’t chill nightsin and he either had to party or have fun nights out, so he knew lots of people, and honestly, I never thought about them as only entertainment friends so I take it as an act of fate that life has shown me that I had no friends when times are tough for me and I had only good times🙂‍↕️.

Romantic: Don’t fall in love before 25! Actually, when you have a mature brain, because love is the most powerful hard drug humanity will ever find!🤷🏼‍♂️😅

I think humanity has invented more relationships, such as situationship( I heard it from my cousin, who is 20 and like a sister to me😍)


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