Okay, since it was a boring morning, let me answer that question:

First of all, my younger self had no boundaries or secrets whatsoever in relationships and friendships, and I see that it was a big mistake.

Let’s start with friendships: you must categorise your friends, although I wouldn’t suggest you pretend to be someone you are not. You gotta learn to filter out what comes out of your mouth 🤭😉. Be picky about who you open your home to ( 😂😂 wise words from a guy who opened his home to half of the town 🤣).

Tbh, my past gfs were usually already my friends first, so I had no secrets with them either, and maybe that’s not a good idea, you should claim your own zone 🙄. I’m still pro honesty, but some things are better not spoken 😳. Nonetheless, love is a powerful hard drug, so your intelligence awareness might not work when you’re on it. Pausing for a couple of days will do the trick, and if it’s true love, you may carry on better ♥️